Hijab importance in Islam

How to Start Wearing the Hijab: A Message to My Sisters

If you’re struggling to wear the hijab, know that you’re not alone. I’ve been on that journey too, and I understand how difficult and emotional it can be. I want to share my story—not as someone who’s perfect, but as someone who found her way slowly, step by step.

Growing up, I didn’t wear the hijab. It wasn’t until I entered college that something within me began to shift. College was the place where I started to come closer to Islam. I began praying regularly, and for the first time, I started thinking seriously about the hijab.

But it wasn’t easy.

Like many others, I was caught in a world where appearances, social life, and peer acceptance seemed to matter so much. I had friends, guy friends, group hangouts, and parties. In the middle of all that, the thought of covering myself felt overwhelming. What if I looked ugly? What if my friends stopped talking to me? What if I became invisible?

Shaitan whispered these doubts to my heart often.

But something deeper kept calling me back—my faith, my love for Allah, and the desire to honor His command. So, I made a decision: to begin. Slowly.

I didn’t start with a full hijab right away. Instead, I began by draping a stole over my head—every day, wherever I went. That small act gave me comfort, strength, and confidence. And once I felt ready, I transitioned fully to wearing the hijab.

Eventually, I reached a point where I began wearing the hijab more regularly. But there was one exception—weddings. For some reason, I would take off my hijab during those events. Deep down, I knew that wasn’t right. I felt a disconnect between what I believed and how I was acting.

That was when I truly began to reflect. I took time to understand the meaning of hijab—not just as a cloth, but as an act of worship, a symbol of modesty, and a commitment to my faith. I read, I learned, I prayed. And slowly, I began to change.

Now, at 25 years old, it’s been 3 to 4 years since I made the decision to wear my hijab consistently—even at weddings. It hasn’t been a path free of struggle or doubt. I’m not perfect, and I still fall short at times. But I turn to Allah ﷻ for forgiveness and guidance, every step of the way.

And to you, the one reading this—if I can do it, so can you. Take your time, trust your journey, and remember that Allah sees your efforts. May He forgive us, guide us, and keep our hearts steadfast. Ameen.

It wasn’t instant, and it wasn’t perfect. But it was real. And it was mine.

To every sister reading this: don’t let fear or doubt hold you back. Your journey is personal, and it’s okay to take it one step at a time. What matters most is your intention and your effort. Allah sees your heart.

Deep understanding of hijab and hadith

Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) narrated that when the verse about covering was revealed, the women of the Ansar immediately covered themselves, indicating a prompt and sincere response to the Prophet's teachings.

Hadith also highlight the importance of modesty and avoiding adornments that could attract attention, further supporting the concept of hijab

It was narrated from Safiyyah bint Shaybah that ‘Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) used to say: When these words were revealed – “and to draw their veils all over Juyubihinna (i.e. their bodies, faces, necks and bosoms)” – they took their izars (a kind of garment) and tore them from the edges and covered their faces with them. Narrated by al-Bukhari, 4481.

The following version was narrated by Abu Dawud (4102):

May Allah have mercy on the Muhajir women. When Allah revealed the words “and to draw their veils all over Juyubihinna (i.e. their bodies, faces, necks and bosoms)”, they tore the thickest of their aprons (a kind of garment) and covered their faces with them.

Shaykh Muhammad al-Amin al-Shanqiti (may Allah have mercy on him) said:

“This hadith clearly states that what the Sahabi women mentioned here understood from this verse – “and to draw their veils all over Juyubihinna (i.e. their bodies, faces, necks and bosoms)” – was that they were to cover their faces, and that they tore their garments and covered their faces with them, in obedience to the command of Allah in the verse where He said “and to draw their veils all over Juyubihinna (i.e. their bodies, faces, necks and bosoms)” which meant covering their faces. Thus the fair-minded person will understand that a woman's observing hijaband covering her face in front of men is established in the sahih Sunnah that explains the Book of Allah. ‘Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) praised those women for hastening to follow the command of Allah given in His Book. It is known that their understanding of the words “and to draw their veils all over Juyubihinna (i.e. their bodies, faces, necks and bosoms)” as meaning covering the face came from the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), because he was there and they asked him about everything that they did not understand about their religion. And Allah says (interpretation of the meaning):

“And We have also sent down unto you (O Muhammad) the Dhikr [reminder and the advice (i.e. the Quran)], that you may explain clearly to men what is sent down to them, and that they may give thought” [al-Nahl 16:44]

Ibn Hajar said in Fath al-Bari: There is a report of Ibn Abi Hatim via ‘Abd-Allah ibn ‘Uthman ibn Khaytham from Safiyyah that explains that. This report says: We mentioned the women of Quraysh and their virtues in the presence of ‘Aishah and she said: “The women of Quraysh are good, but by Allah I have never seen any better than the women of the Ansar, or any who believed the Book of Allah more strongly or had more faith in the Revelation. When Surat al-Nur was revealed – “and to draw their veils all over Juyubihinna (i.e. their bodies, faces, necks and bosoms)” – their menfolk came to them and recited to them what had been revealed, and there was not one woman among them who did not go to her apron, and the following morning they prayed wrapped up as if there were crows on their heads. It was also narrated clearly in the report of al-Bukhari narrated above, where we see ‘Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her), who was so knowledgeable and pious, praising them in this manner and stating that she had never seen any women who believed the Book of Allah more strongly or had more faith in the Revelation. This clearly indicates that they understood from this verse – “and to draw their veils all over Juyubihinna (i.e. their bodies, faces, necks and bosoms)” – that it was obligatory to cover their faces and that this stemmed from their belief in the Book of Allah and their faith in the Revelation. It also indicates that women observing hijab in front of men and covering their faces is an act of belief in the Book of Allah and faith in the Revelation. It is very strange indeed that some of those who claim to have knowledge say that there is nothing in the Quran or Sunnah that says that women have to cover their faces in front of non-mahram men, even though the Sahabi women did that in obedience to the command of Allah in His Book, out of faith in the Revelation, and that this meaning is also firmly entrenched in the Sunnah, as in the report from al-Bukhari quoted above. This is among the strongest evidence that all Muslim women are obliged to observe hijab.” (Adwa al-Bayan, 6/594-595) .

How to Wear Hijab for Beginners (Step-by-Step Guide)

🌸 Start with the Right Intention

Before anything else, make your intention clear. You’re doing this for the sake of Allah (SWT), not for people’s approval or trends. Remind yourself that wearing hijab is an act of worship and modesty.

🧕 Choose the Right Hijab Style for You

There are many styles—don’t feel pressured to wear it one certain way. Some easy options:

Simple Wrap Style (with a rectangular scarf/stole)
Turkish Style (with volume and neat folds)
One-Piece Slip-On Hijab (great for ease and comfort)
Shayla or Jersey Hijab (soft, stretchable, and easy to manage)

Get the Basics Ready

Here’s what you need:

Underscarf/Bonnet: Keeps your hair in place.
Pins or Magnet Pins: To secure the hijab.
Scarf: Choose breathable fabric like cotton, viscose, or jersey when starting.

Take It Step by Step

You don’t have to go from 0 to full hijabi overnight. Start small:

Begin by covering your head with a stole or scarf daily.
Then move to a proper hijab when you feel confident.
Wear it at school, college, or while going out—even just for errands. Slowly build comfort.

🕊️ Deal With Challenges Gently

You may feel judged or different.
You may have doubts like “What will people say?”
Remember, Shaitan tries to stop you—but Allah is always near.
Surround yourself with supportive sisters, watch motivational talks, and keep learning about the beauty and purpose of hijab.

Stay Consistent and Ask Allah for Help

" Ya Allah make it easy for me. Strengtheb my faith . Help me wear it with pride and sincerity "

🌙 Final Words:

Hijab is a journey, not a switch. Don’t rush. Don’t compare. Your effort is seen by Allah. Take small steps and celebrate every victory. And always remember: you’re not alone.

“Ya Allah, make it easy for me. Strengthen my faith. Help me wear it with pride and sincerity.”

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